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U.S. Mother Gives Away 5-Year-Old Adopted Child From Haiti For Throwing Temper Tantrum




"Having an instant multicultural family was magical for about two weeks,” says Stacey Conner, a 41-year-old American mom from Spokane, Washington.
After she volunteered in an orphanage in Haiti in 2005, Conner and her husband adopted a 5-year-old Haitian boy named “J.”
Conner claims the boy had attachment disorder and began a strict regimen of attachment parenting of constant surveillance in which a child must often ask for food and water. After two months, J threw a tantrum where he unintentionally hit Conner’s nose with the back of his head.
Conner says the 5-year-old’s strike was accidental, but describes it as “a domestic violence situation. Forget love. Right then, I didn’t even like J.”

J was sent to live with another family in the Midwest. Conner’s biological children adjusted seamlessly to life without their adoptive brother. But other people were puzzled. Neighbors who had seen J riding his bike asked, “Where’s your son?” When Conner answered truthfully, “I’d get the most horrified stares, so I’d keep walking. And I didn’t tell many out-of-town friends or extended family for months.”

Despite such events, the Conners were approved by local social workers to become a foster family, and in October 2013 received a 3-month-old boy as their first placement.

Sources: [x] [x]


white people will let their white kids karate chop them in the throat and call them names in public, but a black child becomes naturally upset after you treat the kid like a grown criminal/animal and you just give them away. go it. sounds reasonable.

"i’d get the most horrified stares"geewonder why

""Having an instant multicultural family was magical for about two weeks,” says Stacey Conner"This reads like a freaking Onion article. I can’t believe these people actually exist.

"magical multicultural family."
These parents are unacceptable. The child did not know better and did not intend on hurting anyone. And also, why would you force your child into such a harsh lifestyle? 
And yet, they are still allowed take care of foster children.

THIS is why a safe space for transethnic families MUST exist for people to share their experiences. Parents and children alike must understand that transracial adoption comes with its own challenges and that internationally adopted kids are NOT magical pets that you can just choose to take on a whim. 

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U.S. Mother Gives Away 5-Year-Old Adopted Child From Haiti For Throwing Temper Tantrum

"Having an instant multicultural family was magical for about two weeks,” says Stacey Conner, a 41-year-old American mom from Spokane, Washington.

After she volunteered in an orphanage in Haiti in 2005, Conner and her husband adopted a 5-year-old Haitian boy named “J.”

Conner claims the boy had attachment disorder and began a strict regimen of attachment parenting of constant surveillance in which a child must often ask for food and water. After two months, J threw a tantrum where he unintentionally hit Conner’s nose with the back of his head.

Conner says the 5-year-old’s strike was accidental, but describes it as “a domestic violence situation. Forget love. Right then, I didn’t even like J.”

J was sent to live with another family in the Midwest. Conner’s biological children adjusted seamlessly to life without their adoptive brother. But other people were puzzled. Neighbors who had seen J riding his bike asked, “Where’s your son?” When Conner answered truthfully, “I’d get the most horrified stares, so I’d keep walking. And I didn’t tell many out-of-town friends or extended family for months.”
Despite such events, the Conners were approved by local social workers to become a foster family, and in October 2013 received a 3-month-old boy as their first placement.
Sources: [x] [x]

white people will let their white kids karate chop them in the throat and call them names in public, but a black child becomes naturally upset after you treat the kid like a grown criminal/animal and you just give them away. go it. sounds reasonable.

"i’d get the most horrified stares"
gee
wonder why

""Having an instant multicultural family was magical for about two weeks,” says Stacey Conner"

This reads like a freaking Onion article. I can’t believe these people actually exist.

"magical multicultural family."

These parents are unacceptable. The child did not know better and did not intend on hurting anyone. And also, why would you force your child into such a harsh lifestyle? 

And yet, they are still allowed take care of foster children.

THIS is why a safe space for transethnic families MUST exist for people to share their experiences. Parents and children alike must understand that transracial adoption comes with its own challenges and that internationally adopted kids are NOT magical pets that you can just choose to take on a whim. 

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shout out to people who are scared to call others out, whose hands shake when they try to explain what’s wrong, whose throats threaten to close up with thoughts of ‘what if i’m just overreacting’, whose hearts are pounding out of their chests because they just stuck their necks out for their beliefs, who have lost friends and respect and safety for aligning themselves with causes

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I found my other shades and I just couldn’t resist, I’m so vain about this. 


h-hello there


whoa it’s actually dave
he exists


likeliterally my headcanon



i dont know what ur talking about “headcanon”
this is literally canon look 

he is canon dave

Its dangerous to be this attractive

lmao look at this trashheap

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faun-songs:

chmurny:

gomugomugodhead:

gambeemascara:

I found my other shades and I just couldn’t resist, I’m so vain about this. 

h-hello there

whoa it’s actually dave

he exists

like
literally my headcanon

i dont know what ur talking about “headcanon”

this is literally canon look 

image

he is canon dave

Its dangerous to be this attractive

lmao look at this trashheap